从出生直至死亡，我们都在不停地思考和应对自我与家庭两者之间产生的冲突，并随着时间和阅历的增长不断更新对亲密关系的认知，在诸多缺憾过后，最终重聚在某一处。我本次的作品，结合课题Reunited，通过讲述一对母女间充满矛盾的故事，为观众展现了我对家庭问题的思考，并探讨如何令自我与家庭和解。 我认为，真正的“和解”并非劝人原谅和忘记。根据家庭治疗大师Murry Bowen提出的“自我分化“概念来看，要做到真正的和解，平衡自我的一体性和个别化是我们的必经之路。年少时期的我们，“孩子”这个身份占据了大部分自我，为此我们常常感到来源于家庭的掌控，就像我作品中因为母亲强烈的掌控欲而被同学称之为妈宝的女儿，但随着时间的影响，女儿步入社会成为了设计师，社会角色的增加使她以更成熟的视角去理解父母，以此平衡自我的一体性和个别化。影片的结尾，母女之间多年的矛盾也随着时间和理解逐渐消失。 光阴流逝如梭如箭，不可遏制，在诸多或轻或重的缺憾过后，人终于重聚在了某一处，人生就是不断失去，时间终将带我们找到和解的出口。

From birth to death, we are constantly thinking and dealing with the conflict between ourselves and our family, and constantly updating the cognition of intimate relationships. People finally reunite somewhere after many things happen. This work combined with the subject “Reunited”. By telling a story full of contradiction between a mother and a daughter, it shows the audience my reflection on family issues and explores how to reconcile with family. In my opinion, true reconciliation isn’t to persuade people to forgive and forget. According to the concept of “self-differentiation” proposed by family therapist Murry Bowen, to achieve true reconciliation, balancing the oneness and the individualization of the self is the only way we must go. When we were young, the identity of “child” occupies most of the self, oneness is far greater than individualization, so we often feel in control of our families. For example, in my work, the daughter is called “giant baby” by her classmates because of her mother’s strong desire for control. But as time goes by, the daughter steps into society and finally becomes a designer. The new social roles expected of her enable her to understand her parents from a more mature perspective, so that she can balance the intrapsychic and interpersonal differentiation of herself. By the end of the film, the conflict between mother and daughter which had endured for years fades away. Time passes like lightning and cannot be constrained. After many events have taken place, people finally reunite somewhere. Life is a constant loss, and time will lead us to the exit of reconciliation.